It has never been easy to let go of someone you love. Making a decision is hard unless you get solid evidence of what unforgivable thing your partner did to you. It may be easy to make a decision when your partner makes serious mistakes such as sleeping with your family member or close friend. Sometimes your partner makes mistakes that are less serious making a delay to a breakup. These are the bad reasons that make you hold on an unhealthy relationship:
You look great together: holding on appearances will take a toll on you emotionally and psychologically. It doesn’t matter whether you make a perfect couple on appearance when you are unhappy and your needs are not being met. There is no reason to stay.
The sex is amazing: according to relationship experts, all relationships begin with a strong chemistry. Even if he or she is good in bed, that should not be the excuse for holding on an unhealthy relationship. You will be wasting time and missing out true intimacy and love!
You are staying because of children: this is one of the most commonly used excuses to suspend a break up among married couples. It is obvious that separation or divorce can affect children and that’s the worry of all couples, but you should also put in mind that a hostile environment full of resentment and agitation is not safe for you!
It is not the right time: most people find it difficult to break up when a special day such as birthday anniversary, Valentine’s Day or any other anniversary is coming up because of fear about how the separation might affect them or just because you want to present during the celebration! You should know that if you haven’t made upon your mind by now, then there is no right time for a breakup.
You are afraid of what people will say: of course people like talking about breakups and that makes it very hard to deal with it, especially after a long relationship or, marriage. That should not be a big deal to stop you from being truly happy! They will still get distracted by other drama and your break up story will be history.