The most prevalent likes of most Kenyan men are money, sex, watching football and at sometimes taking alcohol. Watching football and taking alcohol is what makes a man go to a pub or inn before he comes home with shopping to soothe you. At the pubs and inn is where your man meets barmaids who endanger your marriage. Below are the 5 reasons that barmaid is your tough competition:

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Barmaids are experts in the art of seductions. She knows faking a smile or making dry jokes to a man, offering a shoulder for the man or showing off her cleavage makes him feel better after having a rough day. This creates a big competition for married women who are not romantic to their husbands.

Barmaids are excellent at building rapport with their customers. This helps her to know when a man is broke and how she can make him lively. They are also good listeners than wives who become aggressive, abusive to a broke husband.

Barmaids are always the first beneficiaries of your man’s salary after he gets paid unlike you who are at home who may decide to force your hand into your drunken husbands pocket to get his money.

Barmaids know how to pat a man’s ego which is most men’s weakness that most wives fail to pay attention. If a man shouts at a barmaid, she will calmly obey as the man says, unlike a wife who ends up in a fight. 

Most wives do not know how to play nice to their husbands, unlike barmaids who are always nice to their loyal customers. This makes her get a bigger share of your man’s cash than you do, and that’s how they always survive.

When a married woman is tired and angry of her man who is coming late from work, she tells him to go take food from the kitchen and serve himself, unlike that barmaid who is welcoming and enquires what the man bullied by his wife wants to be served with. This makes her irresistible.