The rate at which women want to know why their husbands have become unromantic after a short period of time in marriage is high. This shows how fast men are becoming unromantic. Unromantic relationship or marriage is ever a boring one. Some couples are only being linked up by their kids, without kids in the house no communications between the wife and the husband.
I have looked into some causes of men being unromantic, and these are the common causes;
Men have become too busy
Being so busy all the time limits one’s time with his loved one. Men are so focused on making money, leaving them with little or no times for his lover
“When I started doing online jobs, I am ever busy and engaged, I even sometimes forget to reply a ‘nice day’ text from my girlfriend” noted Bonny, one of my interviewee, who writes for media companies, locally and International.
Men diverge their love from wife to children
After getting the first kid, men’s love changes direction. The change in direction reduces the level of romance towards his wife
“Nowadays my hubby can call me, and the only thing he wants to know is how the kid is, he is never bothered about me” noted one mother, a mother of one.
Failure in serving two masters at ago
Because he got a sidewoman, he is not able to balance the level of his love.
Failure to understand marriage needs romance
Your man was so romantic during your dating times, after the honeymoon he changed. Men focus so much on building a successful marriage and a good family, forgetting his wife needs the romance she was getting while dating.
“I always provide everything for my wife, even her inner clothing I do buy myself,” said one of my responded. He believed romance is all about providing everything for the family.
Much love to entertainment
Most men can spend the whole night watching Barcelona playing against Gor Mahia, much time changing TV channels while his wife is busy staring at him, in a beautiful ‘see me through’ night dress.