There are many things that define a healthy relationship. To maintain a good relationship, there are certain things you must keep secret to avoid problems. Keeping a secret is a way of avoiding your past in the relationship. However, did you know that some secrets can destroy your relationship?
Here are five secrets that might destroy your relationship:
AbortionsThis is a very serious life decision that might affect your future for good. Having several abortions could render a woman unable to carry a pregnancy to full term. Even if it doesn’t affect your pregnancy, this secret will never stay with you forever. Someone mad out there will one day tell your partner about it. Therefore, it’s good that you tell him yourself.
ChildrenSome women get into a new relationship without telling their partners their real-life situation. Many women were married and divorced with some children at home. Even if you want to keep this as a secret, it will one day be revealed and your man will be mad at you or even worse break up with you.
Education levelSome people want to lie their education levels to their partners not to feel low in life. This is a secret you will never keep for long as your papers will be required someday to look for a job. More so, your partner will interact with people from your home and they will tell him about you.
JobMany people especially men, lie about their jobs. Some of them do this to win a certain good woman in their life. However, lying about your job will never be forever as someday your woman will find out what exactly you do for a living. Always be frank with what you do in life, and she will love you for who you really are than pretend and later be found out to be lying.
Family and tribeSome people lie about their family and tribe they come from. Just because you know the various language doesn’t mean you change your family and tribe. Someday your family member will visit you unexpected and things will be known.