While it is a wish of every individual that his or her relationship lasts forever, some relationships last for a short period of time.
It is very heartbreaking that your partner is always bringing up issues in your relationship to a level of saying 'enough is enough', to make matters worse, the partner is never remorseful at the end of the chaos.
Sometimes leaving turns out to be the only remaining option, regardless of the pain which comes with it.
After leaving many people always wonder whether to reconcile or not. Here are things that will help yo make that decision:
1. It doesn't feel good to seek revenge
Most people are revengeful by nature, if revenge , then think of going back and save the relationship, this is so important especially for married couples.
1. Your partner is still physically attracted to you
When you are genuinely done with a person, no matter how attractive they may look, they stop to be attractive to you anymore. Finding the partner attractive means you are still connected, take a bold step and rekindle the love.
2. Your instinct keeps reminding you that you've lost something
Sometimes following the instinct, the 'spirits' saves time. You feel the vacuum in your heart, your mind, and even in your soul, go back and save the relationship, the marriage, and what have you.
3. He/ She still manages to put a smile on your face
A man or a woman who is not worth being with would not make you smile, if he/she makes you smile, you don't need further homework to take the next step.
4. You cannot let go the good memories you had with him/her
Why should you keep on struggling to forget what is not forgettable? If you cannot beat them the joining them becomes an automatic option.
5. If your challenges are not localized
If the challenges causing the mayhem are not directly linked to the relationship, or cannot be avoided, then couples should ignore them even if they affect the relationship