“How do I find someone I will spend the rest of my life with?’’ This is a question many youths ask themselves and due to lack of a correct answer, they end up having the fear of marriage making them stay single for years on end.
Here are 5 key steps that will help you choose the right partner in life
1.) Know the family of your partner
You will interact with your partners’ family more than a thousand times in a lifetime. Their values better be very close to yours so that you may be comfortable and free when interacting with them.
2.) Abstain until after marriage
You will have endless years of intimacy once married. When you have engaged in sexual activity before marriage, different feelings are brought about between you and your partner. Some that may lead to the end of a relationship.
3.) Know your partner
You are bound to know your partner inside out after a long period of dating. Do they easily lose their temper? Are they selfish when making decisions? Do they flirt with everyone? No one is perfect, including you, but learn about their positive and negative traits so that you can live comfortably.
4.) Heed your parents’ advice
God gave you parents as protection. Don’t try to persuade or intimidate your parents listen to what advice they give you. Stepping outside their protection will cost you more than you could ever imagine.
5.) Pray and ask God for Guidance
In all the steps that you follow, always be sure to ask God for guidance as he is your only salvation.
Follow these 5 important steps and you will definitely get a good marriage partner. Good luck!