Being single is not someone’s choice. Some people are single not because they have no choice out, but because the choices they have doesn't suit them. Single people need to be happy and love themselves. They should know that singlehood is not the end of life. However, they should also know what keeps them single. Here are five things that will forever keep you single:
Dating unavailable peopleMany people are dating partners who are either married, cohabiting, addicted, workaholic or living in different countries. Such relationships are built on future promises which seem impossible to achieve. They just waste your precious time living in false hopes of being in a relationship.
Choosing a partner based on wrong traitsMany people choose partners based on looks, money, and social status. They forget about important aspects such as shared values. This makes the relationship built on the wrong basis which will fall when these things go away.
Avoiding commitmentMany people fear commitments in different aspects of life. This makes it hard for them to be committed to relationships. This will make your partner lose interest in you given you will not show them any plans for the future, thus breaking up won’t take time.
Being in a relationship for romance and not loveRomance is the emotional rush that brings to partners together to explore their sexual compatibility. However, the feeling of romance will subside with time leaving you with nothing to hold on in the relationship. A breakup will be the only option left.
Being cynical about loveMany people have weird beliefs about relationships and love. Some men, have always believed that all women are gold-diggers. This makes it hard for them to love, trust or even fall into a serious relationship with them. These perspectives will always keep you in the singlehood unless you change them.