Life has so many things that happen. I just wish it came with a manual. Take, for example, a lady is pregnant, but she doesn’t know who is responsible! This is very bad. Such a lady has many things going through her minds. There are many things she could do at this time that might hurt the rest of her life.
Here are five things a lady should not do when in such a situation:
Don’t force it on someoneIt is easy to confuse someone to be responsible in such a situation. If you are not sure, don’t force it on someone unless that person accepts that he is responsible. The truth will always be known when you give birth or after a DNA test.
Don’t terminate the pregnancyAbortion is a crime. The Bible warns against this and bad things will happen in your life if you do that. Killing that innocent creature growing in you is not good. Let it grow to see what life has in store for it.
Don’t kill yourselfMany women have killed themselves when in such a situation. Stress and how people will talk about it will affect a woman negatively. However, committing suicide is never a good option, in fact not an option at all.
Don’t feel bad about itEverything that happens has a reason. More so, you only get fixed in such a situation if you were a “prostitute.” This is something you went for and it’s not good feeling bad about it. Settle down and start thinking about the new creation in you.
Don’t isolate yourselfGetting pregnant is nothing new today. Many women are getting pregnant and never bother about who the father is but just glad they have a baby. Isolating yourself from your friends and family members will only make you feel bad. Accept it and live a normal life, thanking God for giving you this baby.