Being single can be fun or devastating. It depends on how one takes it.A person can be single out of choice. In that case, he or she can actually enjoy being single. A person can also be single because he or she has been dumped by a former soul mate or s/he has not yet found a partner. As much as being single can be fun, many people fear being single. In extreme cases, some would even prefer staying in an abusive relationship than remain single. Here are five things that single people hate to the core.
When are you getting married?
This question irritates single people so much that they sometimes get sentimental about it.The worst part is that it does not just come from one person; the mother.No.It comes from friends, relatives, colleagues at work,neighbours and even fans (if you are a celebrity). You are single. You do not even have a partner. To whom do these people asking this question expect you to get married to? The correct question they should be asking is this,” When are you getting a boyfriend/girlfriend?”
Noisy sex
If you are blessed with a girlfriend or a wife, why do you have to rub it in the face of that neighbor who is single by having loud sex? What are you trying to show him/her? Which point are you trying to prove? Why add salt to injury? Imagine a single person is trying to get some warmth by clinging tightly to the blanket and then he hears the neighbors moan loudly in the middle of a rainy night. Where do you want him or her to go in the middle of a rainy night? He or she is forced to listen to you guys enjoy sex while he or she salivates. Please, have some mercy.
Dirty utensils
This affects single men more. A single man would rather sleep hungry than wash dirty utensils. To be honest, men do not fear cooking. They dread ending up with a pile of dirty utensils in the sink. It is at this point that he wishes he had a girlfriend/wife. Dirty clothes are irritating but they cannot be compared to dirty utensils.
Weddings
Single people have to endure the pain of attending weddings of their best friends. As much as they are happy their friends are getting married, it reminds them of their own sorry single statuses. Every weekend, they fear getting wedding invitations. It actually makes them desperate to find love. The fact that their friends are getting married and having babies while they are still single torments them silently.
Public display of affection (P.D.A)
Couples who like displaying their love in public should know that there are many single people out there who are not at all pleased with public display of affection. You can kiss and do whatever you want but please keep it private. You do not have to show the rest of the world that the two of you are in love. Do not show rub it in our faces.