A relationship has many things that keep it standing. The most crucial thing is intimacy, and not just intimacy but great intimacy. Most people mistake intimacy for sex. However, intimacy is the deep connection between lovers. Here are things that will deny you a great intimacy with your lover:
Over dependency on sexLove is not always about sex, no, there are many things you can do with your partner to connect to each other deeply. If all you value in your partner is sex, then he/she is more to you as a source of pleasure than a lover. Have a deep session with your lover talking caressing, cuddling and kissing without sex. It will connect you two very highly.
No allocation for quality timeThis is one mistake most people make. They rush intimacy hence missing on a chance to have a deep connection with each other. Time is all that great intimacy will ever need. There are many things you will never realize if you keep on rushing through intimacy.
PornographyLook, people, porn has never been good for a relationship. It inhibits good intimacy as it clouds your minds with images and memories of nude people. This will make you lose concentration hence missing a good intimate session with your lover.
ChildrenWe value children so much in our societies. However, children are a great hindrance to a great intimate session with your partner. You should always find a way to keep your children away when you want to have a great intimate session with your lover.
AffairsDo you trust your partner? Most partners are players, I mean, they have lots of other affairs outside their marriages. This is a great distractor to a great intimate session with your partner. It makes you feel guilty and afraid to let everything with your partner.