There are many times you will receive a random text from your ex. Many things will cross your mind. However, there are many crucial things you need to understand to help you reply this text. Here are five things to remember whenever you get a random text from your ex:
They will respect you more when you don’t replyWhen you are done with someone, don’t make them reach out on you. Be out of their reach. People tend to respect those who are out of their reach. When someone takes you for granted, make them realize how much you mattered and let them realize that you are not ready to be taken for granted anymore.
You owe them nothingYou are out of the relationship right? Well, you owe them nothing. It’s upon you to choose whether to reply their text or not. They broke your heart and therefore you don’t owe them replies, kindness or acknowledgement of their existence because it will hurt you when you remember how they treated you.
Keeping them in your life will block your ways of meeting other good peopleYou don’t want to remain single right? Well, the easiest way to avoid this is by blocking all your exes in your life. Let them realize that you gave them your time and they screwed it. Holding on to your past will block other good people from coming in your life.
They need something from youSome could be in need of something from you and that’s why they text you. Don’t be used for their own good. Making it simple for him/her will only mean you don’t value your life or your existence.
Don’t give them a chance to rekindle a relationshipMost exes text to rekindle old relationships. Don’t ever give someone who broke your heart, took your for granted and even tarnished your name a chance to play around with you anymore. Let them know that you moved on and they should too.