Everyone likes to be independent and do their own thing every once in a while, even as a married person. It’s totally fine if you want to take yourself out to lunch or buy yourself a shirt or two, but there are certain things that need to be discussed with your spouse first before any decisions are made.Here are some of them:
1. Buy something very expensive.Even if you want to surprise your spouse with the brand new iPhone that just came out, it’s best to give them a heads up before you spend that kind of money. Set a limit and agree to talk before you spend beyond that limit. This will help you make better financial decisions and your spouse won’t feel like you’re wasting any hard-earned money.
2.Quit your job.Career decisions are huge, so don’t make them without the help of your spouse. Talk it through and think about all the pros and cons, then make a decision together.
3. Invite anyone to stay/live with you.Whether you know someone who needs somewhere to crash for a few days or someone who needs a place to permanently live, don’t offer your home without consulting your spouse first.While it’s a nice gesture to offer your living space, it’s important to make sure you can both handle it emotionally and financially.
4. Buy a house.Buying a house without talking about it with your sweetheart first seems absolutely absurd, but it happens. You might think it would be a fun surprise, but your spouse wants (and needs) to be involved in that big life decision.
5. Make big plans.Don’t make weekend-long plans without consulting your spouse first. They might have things going on or you might have important things to do together, so it’s best to plan big things together.