Relationship breakups are hard to take. Both men and women are affected differently by a breakup. However, when a breakup is worth more than the relationship, the two partners will feel good ending the stressful relationship. Whether a breakup is for a good reason or a bad reason, there are many things people are not allowed to do during a breakup. Here are five things to avoid doing during a breakup:
Lie about the reason for breaking upBreaking up is very hurtful. However, it will be more hurtful when you lie about why you are breaking up. People are advised to be honest and sincere as to why they want to break up with their bae. Giving a sincere reason will help bae avoid the same mistake he/she did that you decided to break up into their next relationship.
Breaking up via phoneBreaking up should never be on the phone. If at all you respected bae when you were still on good terms, you should honor this and face him/her to tell him/her the reasons you want to break up. Breaking up on phone with a message, social media or phone call is childish.
Break up during a fightIf at all you wanted to break up with someone, don’t wait until you have the right to do it. Many people think breaking up is the best way to end the fight, but that will only make things escalate further. Plus making a decision when angry will make you regret later when you have cooled off.
Do it in publicYour relationship was between you and your bae, therefore, involving other parties during your break up will mean your relationship was never just between you. More so, you will feel uncomfortable and stupid airing your problems in a crowd. Find a lonely place so that you can talk out your issues and agree on a good break up.
Sending your friends to deliver the breakup messageSome people can be very rude. They will send their friends to tell you that it’s over between you two. This is the most stupid way of breaking up with someone. More so, it shows how immature you have been in your relationship so that you want to involve everyone in your issues.