1. Love at first sight
Well, this phrase only happens and works in movies and books; not in the real life. In most cases Love at first sight is usually lust. Love, however, takes time to blossom, it must be nurtured. So, if the "I Love You" is said a little too soon, girl, just hold your horses and please, dont jump into taking the big step. You'll thank me later.
2. No money, sweetheart
It's not that you are a gold-digger, but girl, you are independent and sophisticated and can easily afford to go dutch on a date. At this time and age, women dont necessarily look for billionaires, but a man who has something in his pockets and this would definitely goal long way. Men would also feel very safe if they had a few coins with them. Makes them feel "manly". So, girl, if the man cannot understand this, run, run from the broke ignoramus.
3. The "Ex" factor
If you are dating a man who still compares you to his "ex", "you are good, but she was better". Girl, that man does not deserve you! He can as well go back to his ex-girlfriend. If he still talks about the ex-relationship, its evidence that he is not yet over the relationship, and still sulks about it. When you dont dump him and talk to him and make him realize and still the situation doesnt change, it would be absurd if you still hang in that relationship.
4.Dad's the financier
Would you live with a guy who at 25 still lives with his parents? the dude should first get a job! If this cannot happen, he will depend on his dad, or you to foot the bills. And the nigga will complain and nag that you are not a good girlfriend once you refuse to foot his bills.
5. Ex-friendly factor
Some men still retain a certain amount of care for the women they once loved. Dude, if you two broke up, both of you should go your separete ways. The feelings that you once had for each other can easily be rekindled in some weak moments. Focus on the current love and let go your 'ex" as a friend.