Men are the number one marriage breakers and this isn't new to you my reader. Most broken marriages in Kenya are attributed to men and this is because of issues that can be changed at early stages. Here are main ways men destroy their marriages;
1. Never saying am sorry
'I'm sorry' is a very rare word in the mouth of an immature man or a man full of ego. If you are a man and you have wronged your wife, simply apologize and save your marriage. Do not be hard headed for no reason.
2. Being judgemental
She has done something wrong but very little. You being judgemental comes in to judge and call her names. Do not judge your wife for small mistakes. And do not try to force her with your decisions when she is undergoing times of crises. Do not force fixing her.
3. Being silent after fights
There has been a fight meaning there is an issue that needs to be solved and you are quiet on it, this is a clear indication to your woman that you care less about important issues in the house and she is wasting time being with you. Work on issues worth causing fights with your wife. You are the man of the house. Who are you being silent for?
4. Blaming your mistakes on your woman
You have done something wrong then because you think she can do nothing you blame it on her? You have an affair with another woman, she catches you, then you come in arguing that it's because she doesn't care for you. That is wrong if she doesn't care for you tell her how to do so since she may not know what makes you feel cared for.
5. Letting anger overwhelm you
You have been in a word fight and now you feel angry and you feel like laying your heavy and masculine hands upon her? This is wrong. Control your temper because only an immature man hits his woman. You have her to protect her.