Insecurity can turn your heart away from the truth and it is easy to lose your partner when you let insecurity take over your heart and mind.
When you feel insecure in your relationship you make your partner lose interest in you and so insecurity is a bad trait.
Below are some of the ways you can explore to avoid feeling insecure and save your relationship;
Avoid stupid assumptions
Avoid assuming that your partner is cheating yet in a real sense they aren't cheating. Don't assume that your partner doesn't love you even when he or she has done enough to make you see. This is the key step to stop yourself from feeling insecure.
Focus on the positive, forget the negative
When you focus too much on the negative things in your relationship you are only creating room for the feeling of insecurity. Think more positive than negative and don't let small things that don't even matter trigger a feeling of insecurity in you.
Stop blaming yourself
The feeling of insecurity will grow in you when you think everything that happens is your fault. Blaming yourself even for your partner's mistakes is wrong. Stop thinking every wrong thing is because of you. It is unhealthy for your relationship.
Stop forcing meaning into everything
This is called being paranoid over everything. When you see your partner having a friendly chat with a someone you try to get your own meaning out of the chat, or when you see your partner talk to someone else you think there is an affair. You should avoid these little things to avoid feeling insecure in your relationship.
Believe that you are good enough for your partner
There are people who will always think that they are not good enough for their partners but the truth is you are good and fit for that relationship. Don't let your mind trick you into being what you really aren't. Believe you are good enough and your relationship will flow smooth enough without you feeling insecure.