Fights and arguments are normal in a relationship especially when couples have too many differences and lack of understanding. These fights and arguments break relationships but they can be controlled or rather prevented. Some of the things you can do to help you avoid fights with your spouse include;

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Admit when you are wrong and apologize

Admitting that you are really wrong will not cost you anything but will save your relationship. Knowing that you are the wrong one and still insists that you are right will only make the fight worst. Do not let your spouse apologize for being wrong when actually he/she is not wrong. 

Listen

Don't be that partner who never listens to get the point of view of the argument. During an argument, always give your ears to your spouse when he/she tries to explain herself/himself. After listening then you can express your take on the cause of the argument. This will help provide a solution to the argument and bring it to an end. 

Avoid taking problems personally 

When you got together, you probably agreed to share all your problems and find solutions together. Why then should you keep them for yourself when you know your spouse won't be happy about it? Keeping your problems for yourself will only make him/her feel secluded and insignificant in your life. 

Accept your spouse as he/she is

If your spouse doesn't like fights and arguments then try not to cause any. When you feel something is wrong, find a peaceful way to approach him or her and explain the issue in a way that no fight is triggered. Accepting your spouse as he/she is will smoothen your coexistence in the relationship and lower instances of fights. 

Be sensitive to your spouse's needs

Each and every person has specific things they need to be kept clear when they get into a relationship or marriage. If your spouse told you of certain things that irritate him/her then you have to avoid such so as to limit chances of opening fights between the two of you.  If she doesn't like it when you roll out with your female friends then you have to stop it. If he doesn't like it when you chat with your male friends till late then you surely have to stop it too. 

Make the relationship enjoyable and devoid of regrets.