It is very easy for men to make that first step when eyeing a woman. The case is so different when it comes to women. Not that because women are not friendly, it is the shyness that limits most women. Only those who try to beat this logic do it on social media, for example you inbox him on Facebook.
A relationship expert Adam LoDolce in his book “The Top 5 Reasons Why Quality Guys Are NOT Approaching You (and How to Change That)” outlines 5 major tips on how to make a man you are eyeing approach you. These are the tips
Show them your whites
This simple give him a smile. You pass in a club or any other social place and like him, you catch steal his attention by your smiles. Some men are shy, your smile will relieve them.
Get his attention by asking him a question
Just a simple question is enough to lure his attention to you. Ask him to tell you the time, he will sense something. Do ask complicated things that can make him bored.
Don’t be nest to another man
If you are eyeing this man at point B of the club, and you are seated at point A with another man near you, you won’t succeed. Your target will assume the other man sitting close to you is your guy. Sit around women if you cannot sit alone.
Be smart
If you are eyeing a smart guy then make yourself his type. Be as smart as he is.
Be easy to approach, hard to obtain
Just be sociable to anyone when it comes to approaching, but hard to get. Never forget the ‘5-minute rule’. The rule needs a woman to give 5 minutes of her time to any guy if he is worth it when you arrange for more time.