Cases of husbands having affairs with their maids have become common in today’s society.
It is therefore important for the lady of the house to employ certain tricks to prevent these affairs that lead to broken marriages.1. Know your husband’s weaknessesLiving with your husband and even sharing the same bed with him means you understand him well. You know his major weaknesses when it comes to women. For example, if he likes light-skinned women, don't hire one as your maid. Go for a dark-skinned house help as it is unlikely that he will be attracted to her.2. Give your maid a day offGive her free time. She is a woman with normal feelings just like you. If you do not want her to eye your hubby, let her be free. Don't bother so much with where she goes on her off-day. Just advise her to be safe and make mature decisions.3. Vet before hiringVetting an employee before giving her/him a job is very vital and necessary. Follow your instincts when vetting your maid so that you don't end up with a competitor in the house. 4. Set rules Before subscribing to something, there is usually a note asking you if you agree to the terms and conditions. One can only proceed to final subscription once they have agreed to the set terms. Apply the same rule to your maid. Let her know the Dos and Don'ts in your house5. Don't be too comfortableHaving a maid does not mean your roles as a wife have changed. You have to get up and do some work especially when your man is around. You should never forget your position as the lady of the house. 6. Do not be rude Being rude to somebody who cooks for the family, takes care of the kids and manages the home when you are not around is unwise. She may end up developing a grudge. She can decide to seduce your man as revenge. Always be kind to your maid.