According to Patricia Bright, a relationship counselor and an inspirational speaker, there is no challenging experience than being single in an era which seems to put more importance on marriage and childbearing. However, there are many advantages associated with single people that married couples in constant fights admire. She noted that being single is never a choice by anymore but rather a life experience that most people really hate. In one of her vlog talks, she outlined how single people can be happy with their lives without disturbing anyone:
Get busyBeing single is never easy, said Bright. This is evident by the things most single people are willing to do to get a partner in their life. However, single people can live a happy life without being disrupted by getting themselves busy in their daily works. Bright advises single people to do meaningful things that earn them a living.
Treat yourselfUsually ladies think men are the ones who are supposed to treat them. This has been a misinformation misleading most of our women, says Bright. According to her talks, she advises single people to treat themselves ones in a while to feel like they belong too in the society. Enjoy every moment even when you are alone as this will help you be happy, continued Bright.
Have goalsBright advises single people to have goals in their lives. Goals will help them know what they want and when they want them than waiting for someone to decide things for you. Having goals in life will help single people get busy and thus avoiding thinking about other disruptive things.
Avoid bitter peopleSome people will never advise you well. All they will do is blame you for being single and not marrying or getting married when they know little about your life. According to Bright such people should always be avoided to stay happy in your life. They will only make you feel guilty about being single when it’s not a crime.
Develop yourselfPeople should always be dependent on themselves, says Bright. Being self-sustaining will help single people know that they can do anything even without anyone’s support. Developing yourself is very crucial as it helps people realize their worth in life and no one will ever play with it.