This is often known as being a deal breaker. His mama’s presence is a constant one, and there seems to be no mistake. It could be a long haul situation that you're dealing with here: these are the major signs you’re dealing mama’s boy.
1. There are no decisions he makes alone.
Every single thing. Every decision. Can he make pilau tonight? What’s his plan for the weekend? He always has to check out whatever he wants to get up to past his mother.
2. He can’t seem to do anything on his own.
When’s the last time he did laundry? Have you looked through the entirety of your calendar yet? Ask yourself can he really do anything, is he capable of existing outside of his mother’s sphere of influence? A true sign of a mama’s boy is that he just isn’t able to get anything done on his own.
3. His mama’s always around.
Trying to show off your new lingerie? There’s the knock on the door. It’s his mom, showing up without calling ahead for the third time this week. A sure fire sign that this one is only answerable to one woman in his life (mom) is her always coming around. Ask yourself: why?
4. He’ always going home.
It’s date night, but he has to go run off to mama’s house to do…what exactly? This constant checking in, dropping in and visiting might mean that he’s just way too dependent and needy of his mom.
5. There is a constant stream of errands.
You guys were supposed to go on a road trip to Machakos but here he is, running across town to pick up three onions. This is the classic sign of a mama’s boy (and a codependent relationship): he’s always running up and down just to please her.