There is a lot of happiness in getting married. In fact, it appears like a dream come true when you get married to your partner.
However, it should be noted that it is very easy to ruin a new marriage if you make any mistake that is in this list;
The enthusiasm that comes with being new in marriage makes some couples make hasty decisions. Most couples don't understand that love needs to continue growing between them until it becomes stable at the marriage level. Understand that relationship is different from marriage and so you need to take things slow. Do not rush to talk about a wedding when you are not yet stable in the marriage.
2. Insisting that you are always right
Another big mistake you should avoid is thinking that you are always right. Understand that you are both new in marriage and stop acting like an expert. Getting to the extent that you prefer to be right than be in marriage will definitely kill it before your wedding day comes. Accept that mistakes happen. Accept that sometimes you are wrong.
3. Bringing up past problems and mistakes to present
As a new couple, you will always have arguments just like old couples do. Big problems come when you begin bringing past issues into current problems. Doing so makes your argument ineffective and unconstructive. Instead, put your focus on issues of today, learn how to move on and avoid dragging past arguments into the present.