After falling in love and finally deciding to be an item, the gradual process of unfurling who your significant other is begins. There are things that you will not like about them, and their friends could be one thing.
There are various factors that could contribute to you not liking their friends. May be their interests do not augur well with yours or they simply are a bad influence.
Even then, do not make a rash decision when it becomes apparent to you that you won’t get along with your partner’s friends.
Here are things you should do;
Do not ask your partner to choose between you and the friends
Your partner had a life before the two of you met. It would be completely irrational to ask him/her to choose between you and the friends. They were there before you, and they will there after you. As such do not pressure your partner to choose.
Get to know the friends before you pass judgment
On the face value, your partner’s friends could seem to have descended from another planet altogether. They don’t subscribe to what you believe in or even your interests. Even then, taking time to know them is a good idea because you may realize that the friends are actually nice people.
You don’t have to spend time with your partner’s friends
If you don’t like your partner’s friends, you do not have to spend time with them. You do not have to spend all your time with your partner. Instead, take time off and spend it with your friends instead of his