Things have been pretty cool. Having good times, laughing and sharing the most romantic episodes of your relationship.
Suddenly, he's cold, silent and kind of avoiding you. The silent treatment is the most torturous punishment one can ever receive.
It causes a lot of damage, especially to a young relationship. Men are fond of this habit but little do they know it makes their partners feel less important. Here are three reasons why your guy is suddenly giving you cold treatment:
1. He feels you are not taking him seriously
If your guy suddenly gives you the silent treatment, he most definitely feels like his concerns are not being given serious consideration. When he feels like you are ignoring him, he decides to do the same in return.
People's interpretation and understanding vary but it's good to sit down and discuss the matter at hand than leaving it unsolved.
2. He's desperate for attention.
When a man realizes that you are not giving him enough attention, he will force you to give it. He will make you wonder about what to do to resolve the silent treatment. If he is using this tactic to get your attention, trust me gal, he will keep doing it until you find a way to stop it.
For you to have a healthy, long term relationship, all your concerns must be taken care of. If he suddenly goes silent, he's only trying to remind you that he has concerns you need to take care of. He wants you to approach him and initiate communication for him to feel comfortable in sharing whatever that's eating up his mind.