Emotions often fluctuate and can, in fact, bring confusion.
You might think you love your spouse or partner when you only like them. You might also like the entire idea of being with that person when in reality you don't love them at all.
Here are 5 signs that show you are not really in love;
1. You find interest in others
When you truly love someone, you wouldn't have an interest in other people. However, when you find yourself interested in another person other than your partner then this could mean you don't really love them.
2. You aren't attracted to them
Love comes with attraction. You wouldn't say you love someone when they don't attract you at all. True love and attraction go hand in hand meaning love brings attraction to it.
3. You don't think of a future with them
When you love someone, chances are that you will think of a future with them. If it doesn't bother you whether your partner will be in your future or not then you don't really love them.
4. You don't care about solving problems in the relationship
Problems are there in every relationship to break them. If you got problems but you don't care to talk about them, it means you don't care enough to solve them to save your relationship with your partner.
Just like love comes with attraction and respect, it comes with value as well. If you don't feel lucky to have that person in your life then you wouldn't say you love them. You probably are not in love if you see your partner like just any other person.