A feeling of deep and intense love is an experience most of us go through when we think we have got the best person to spend our entire life with. This is often shuttered when conflict remains unsolved, betrayal chips in or you end up parting ways.

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Every relationship is faced with challenges but it depends on how the involved parties sacrifice themselves to keep the love they shared before fresh. 

To keep your relationship healthy, on the right track and avoid unnecessary drama, it is important to empower yourself through the following ways;

1. Always speak up when you are upset

You should never shy away from pointing out that which never made you happy even if it is small stuff. Always stating out your feelings towards your partner on what hurt you create confidence and oneness to discuss even bigger things in life. This will result in a happy and healthy relationship.

2. Accept your imperfections

No one is perfect, everyone one of us has different flaws and mistakes they would wish to erase completely from their future. Openly owning and choosing to learn the positive from your flaws makes your partner realize how much you treasure and appreciate yourself and they will have no choice than to follow suit.

3. Learn to say 'no' 

Although this could be a difficult decision to settle especially towards a person you love so much, it is worthy at times. Do not nod your head in acceptance to everything your partners put forward yet you ain't buying the idea. Stand for what you think is better and allow conversation between you and your partner.