Marriage is the only institution that you are offered a certificate before even stepping your foot in class. For this reason, there are marriage counselling classes before the unification. However, this doesn’t work to some extent, considering the rise of marital conflicts of late.
I am hereby, of the opinion that if these three things if practised in any marriage setup today, happiness and joy will sprout again thereof;
Respect your partner
Days are gone when at the cough of the husband, the wife came running to inquire what the hubby is trying to say. However, I think it is high time we consider this kind of relationship. Any home where husband-wife fights are witnessed today, you will notice that respect for each other has deteriorated.
Love, submit
I don’t know how you understand love but hear this; women are not created to love. It's men who can genuinely love women. Women in a relationship or marriage must submit. For example, a man can cheat on his wife and still love her. On the other side, when a woman cheats on her husband, the emotional force that bonds them starts to break loose. Again, disrespect starts to show up automatically. So if you want a happy marriage, observe your lane. If you be a man, then love your wife, and the wife, submit to your husband.
Appreciate for the little things
Remember those days you were dating. You could apologize even for the neighbour’s mistakes! My friend, what happened? Bring back that first love man. Husband, appreciate those little things your wife does, even when they are not done to your taste. Wife, appreciate your husband for who he is in your life and children. Your marriage can be happier than this. Try these observations today.