God expects a lot from you as a husband(and a father of course). You should stand before your family as a Godly so that don't live astray.
Below is a list of things that are central to being a Godly husband;
1. Love God more than you love your wife
You might be carried a lot by the love you feel for your wife and children. But always remember to put God first.
Love Him more than you love your family. You become a Godly husband when you fear God more than your wife.
2. Be a spiritual leader.
Lead your wife and kids to God. Hold morning and evening devotions whenever you can.
As a husband, you act as the leader, so take control of your family and lead them to God through prayers. Don't just leave it to your wife.
3. Fulfil your role in the marriage by protecting your wife
God gave man the role of protecting his wife and children. As the head of the family, God expects you to be the sole protector of your people.
God commissioned a husband to protect his wife. Your wife and children are more vulnerable than you are therefore, they depend on you for protection.
4. Provide for your wife and family
Aside from protection, God expects you to be provider of your family. It is your personal responsibility to ensure that your wife and children have what they need. Provide necessary resources for the healthy living of your family.
5. Be humble even as you lead your family
You ought to lead with humility. Despite being deployed by God Himself as a leader, you should be able to lead your family selflessly without having to think that you are more special.