Ever been in a situation whereby you really liked a girl but didn't want to spook her with your romantic affections so you shelved your intentions in the hopes of a better tomorrow. Unfortunately, as time went by you woke up to the realization that it was probably too late to pull out the 'I have very deep feelings for you" card.
That is called a friend-zone by naturalization, where you stay too long till the sexual tension wears off and your friendship is gone too far to start afresh. Then one fine day you decide to hold it no longer before you can utter any word, she turns around and tells you what a great friend you've been or even worse, you’re just like a brother to her!
To avoid the friend-zone is a pretty easy maneuver, just make sure she knows that you desire her. Drop a few hints now and then that your package is aware of her beauty. Here are few tips on how to pull this off:
#1 Engage her in sensual conversations
Do not just talk about really boring and normal staff when you guys are together, this will burn out the little chemistry that was flickering in the air. Try and have stimulating and sensually oriented conversations, the kind of conversations that she doesn't have with her regular friends. This will alert her to your subtle advances.
#2 Always curve out some "Just Us" time
Hanging around a lady when she's with her friends kind of diminishes her view of you as a sexual partner. You need to find creative ways of isolating her from her crowd and engaging her in stuff that only the two of you like doing. Always avoid hanging out with her when she's with her friends. She will definitely notice this trend.
#3 Regularly drop some sexual hints
You have to drill her till she comes to the realization that you are definitely aware of her sexuality and you find her attractive and appealing. Once you can change this mindset then you are sure to avoid the friend zone. Compliment her looks, flatter her occasionally and notice her efforts in trying to stay attractive.
#4 Be manly around her
Straight women are attracted to men exclusively. This means that if you treat and handle her like her girlfriends do then you will definitely fail in your efforts to attract her sexually. Treat her like a man treats a woman, though respectfully, you should always touch her and treat her as if you were courting her. Give her all your attention just like you would have done in a normal romantic relationship.
#5 Make the relationship secretive
Once you stop hanging around her friends and successfully manage to curve out some "Just Us", then the next step is to give her preferential treatment when the two of you are alone. Let her realize that you’re special to her only when it’s just the two of you. When you create secrets, you build sexual chemistry and suspense which leads to romance.
#6 Expose your kinky thoughts covertly
Drop the hint that you are willing to take her out on a date, but don't allow the surprise to sink in; Quickly shift gears and bombard her with another simulating conversation totally different from that. This applies also to the kinky thoughts, you can tell her what you would do to her body sexually if given the chance. But before she can answer or it starts feeling awkward you shift gears once more. Rest assured that she will definitely think about these conversations later on.
#7 Ask her out on a date
Once the ground is set and you've managed to successfully cultivate that sexual tension between the two of you: You can now marshal the courage and ask her out on a real date.