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Men sometimes destroy their relationships because of petty things they could have easily avoidedTo keep your woman, you must follow strictly the rules of a relationship or risk breaking upMen are goal-oriented, bold, masculine, warmhearted and all-round flexible. All men should be manly and hard.Although, some men need to man-up.The following are some of the things men should avoid.1.Avoiding responsibilitiesStop blaming someone else for your mistakes, because the instant gratification you get lights you up. Do not blame her for your injured-pride and differences. Instead, own up to your mistakes and accept responsibility.2.Abusing a woman emotionally and physicallyYou don't have to extend your sentiments into beating up your partner. Domestic violence is illegal. Our ancestors never beat up their wives when they failed to show up or brew them liquor. They just sent a word which was enough to straighten out the mistress. You should man up and keep watch of your missus' emotional bowels. Take note of her feelings, fears and self-esteem.3.Faking yourselfIt's unmanly to walk around with false identity. You don't have to fake yourself to be with somebody. Be in your ownself and don't change it to impress a person to win their favours. Be yourself and feel good to be who you are.4.Disrespecting your womanWomen are just people and like men they should be respected. Real men build their partners up and they never try to bring them down or control them. By showing women love, commitment and romance, they'll feel appreciated and respected.5.Cheating in the relationshipThis is wrong and you'll really hurt your partner. Fooling around with another woman feels absolutely terrible when your partner discovers it. She will be hurt. If you're a real man, you won't stand to see the person living for you crying her heart out. You will fundamentally violate her trust on you by deceiving her. This will torment her. It’s devastating to wreck one's trust in any partnership.6.You're careless with moneyReal men don't buy stuff to impress women to win their love. Real women never sell their hearts out to get love. A good partner will love the way you are and she will not fraught her expectations on you. Live within your means and don't buy your way into a horrendous debt by trying to impress that woman with expensive purchases.7.Abandoning your values and beliefsSuch men have no direction and their future is a big, black and void. When one gives up their values and beliefs, they lose themselves and are locked out from a good future. Such a man has nothing to fight for and the odds are always against them. He doesn't stand up for himself, friends or beloved ones.