People are stuck in unhappy relationships because maybe they have dated someone for a longtime and they are adamant to change. Peer pressure where all your friends are in relationships may also contribute to one staying in an unhappy one. People who have been in a wonderful union when they fall out of love they wouldn't want to end it in fear of what people might say. Here are signs that you are pretending to be in a happy relationship
1. You no longer feel the need to contact them when they are away
When the relationship was young you couldn't stay away from each other but now you always try to find a way to be far from them. You no longer keep calling them to see what they are up to like before.
2. You get mad at them over petty issues
When you cannot stand them anymore they tend to irritate with every small mistake they make. You need to handle issues with some sense of maturity. Getting mad won't help
3. You don’t see a future with them anymore
When making plans you stop including them. One stops picturing them when you get that dream house or when you think about a family. This is because they probably are too used to their partners, or they just don’t want to embrace change. Some are also in denial hoping that someday things will work out
4. Holding on to resentment
You constantly whine over the mistakes they made over and over again. You are not able to accommodate them and you always bring up something they did wrong. Falling out of love happens all the time. Sometimes you and your partner can try to work it out but sometimes it becomes hard. Many couples opt to stay in the relationship even if they are unhappy.