In your recent breakup, you may be having feelings and thoughts like: “I don’t love her anymore!”, “She broke my heart!”, “I hate her now!”, to the extent of wondering whether you should throw out the gifts she gave you while you were together.
On the other hand, you could be having thoughts saying “I want her back but, is it worth it?"
If you, however, want her back and are confident things will work out this time around, here are four ways to get her back.
1. Make the first step by proving through action that you deserve another chance
Fix the broken mess you caused. If you are the reason for the break-up, why not correct your mistakes? Put a plan in place that will help you fix your messes one by one. This is the ultimate thing that will show your ex that you deserve a second chance.
2. Learn from your mistakes
Do new things from today. Stop dwelling on the old mistakes you often committed thinking it is safe since time proved you wrong. Learn from the mistakes that led to your separation and never repeat them again.
3. Allow her some space and exercise patience
Don’t call her every time like you did before while requesting to go out, you will just be nagging her. Just give her some space to think and reflect. Be respectful and show her through little but important actions that you want her back.
4. Demonstrate your behavioural changes through actions
Since you have realised your role in destroying the relationship through things like selfishness or others, it is better now to do the opposite and not just by saying you have changed through words. Stop talking and start acting by engaging in good actions that lead towards mending your relationship.