In courtship or marriages, cheating is not a vocabulary since many have gone through this experience at one point in life. Here are 5 things you should do if you find out that your partner is cheating on you:
1. Get tested for STDsMost men and women who get involved in sexual promiscuity are mostly careless about having safe sex. If you realize you are being cheated on, please go and test. The earlier the better in case of an infection.2. Reach out to others for helpDealing with a cheating lover needs a high level of emotional control and support that is above what people normally experience. This is the time you need someone close to you, family member, friends or therapist who understands better your situation and who can comfort you.3. Learn more about sexual compulsivityThis learning process helps you to be in a position to understand your cheating lover and helps you to make better decisions now and in the future.4. Trust your feelings and observationsIf it comes to a point you feel insecure and you no longer trust your partner, trust your feelings and intuition. If your spouse or lover is not changing after help from therapist or support groups, then do not be blind that things will change, make the right decision.5. Expect to join your partner in therapy session if you want to work things outBe comfortable to meet your partner in a therapy session. It is from this place you can find answers to your doubts about your partner. In the presence of a therapist, you will be able to control your feelings and experiences and avoid harm and unhealthy confrontation.