Most people in a relationship do things that may be very toxic to the relationship. The relationship the two of you have may not be as toxic before, in fact, the two of you may be very perfect for each other. There are many little things you do and think they are normal to the relationship without knowing that they are ruining the future of the relationship. Here the habits that you think they are normal though they are ruining your relationship.
The first thing is keeping score
This is a situation whereby the person you date always reminds you of what you have done in the past after meeting or before meeting. Couples usually would like to say who did the worst mistake than the other and how many times has it been done. This is toxic since the two of you will always use the past mistakes to explain the current situation even if there is some goodness in a person. Learn to deal with the current situation as it is and leave it at that, not for future reference.
Leaving your partner to figure out for themselves by giving hints and passive expressions whenever there is something- it is important to communicate to your partner whenever something is upsetting you rather than doing things that will hurt them. This is a mistake most people do without knowing they are ruining a good relationship.
Another thing is holding your relationship hostage through blackmails, bribes, money and threats in order to keep a relationship intact. This is usually a temporal solution to your love affair since when what makes you hold onto it ends so does your relationship. Always give your partner freedom as you are given one.
Extreme jealousy- being jealous is a bit normal to any relationship whereby love exists.
Extreme jealous such as getting pissed at your partner for calls, messages, greetings in public, work-related meetings, stalking your partner in every social media account and questioning everything is quite too much. This can end your relationship sooner than you expect. Always give freedom and learn to trust your partner.
Blaming your partner for anything you do or when there is something wrong with your emotions- for example when you are sad you start blaming your partner for not being there and supportive. He/she will eventually get tired and assume you have mood swings so does a relationship end.