Have you ever been in a situation of sustained pressure from family members who want to know the day you will settle down and start a family? How do you handle such situations without causing a fight in the family?
1. Bring up a new topic
If your mother or your elder brother asks you this question, do not make them know that you don't like the pressure they are putting on you to get married.
Dodge such questions by bringing up a new topic. For instance, you can switch to your employment issues. "Dad, on Monday I will be attending an interview and if I become successful, I will be promoted", tell him, this is important and he will listen.
2. Shift and move to another activity
Sometimes it might feel bad, but let your action speak for you. Walk away and they will understand that you are not comfortable with their increased pressure on your personal life.
If it was on a dinner table and everyone is looking at you, distract their attention with anything that you have at hand.
3. Make it clear that you are being frustrated
Be open with anyone who is asking you such questions that you do not like the way they are meddling with your private life.
Make it known that you might not be ready yet and probably you are still planning. This will ease the tension and I don't think you will ever hear such questions at all.
4. Talk to other family members who understand you
There are other family members who are understanding your case. When you tell them that you still are not ready to start a family, they can talk to the other relatives who are very much interested in your life.