What a man once felt for his wife when they met for the first time may change after they marry and live together for decades. 

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Love may evolve or regress as years pass by. It is a couple’s duty to adapt to the changing patterns in a positive way. There are several reasons that might make a man lose interest or enthusiasm for his wife. 

Here are some of them:

1. When women continuously lose respect and love towards their husbands

Respect is like oxygen to men. They cannot breathe without it. The moment it is lost, love fades away. Be careful how you treat your husband because disrespecting him once graduates to a habit which is dangerous in the long run.

2. When wives neglect taking care of themselves or spicing up the bedroom

Why would a woman only take care of herself when she is either going to work or out on a weekend? Why not do a make-up when you are staying with your husband? How about that mini-skirt, why not wear it when you are with your husband too? 

He needs to look at your thighs too! Why not wear attractive lingerie to soar up his adrenaline?

3. The fact that a wife stopped her hobbies, does not like a fresh experience

Your husband might have met you at a volleyball match where you played or you were just a fan watching the derby. Why did you stop? Life is not just about taking care of the husband and kids. 

Why not go watch a rugby match at Impala Club on a Saturday or go to Java House and have some coffee with your husband?

4. Kids take most of her time, rarely cares about her husband

Kids bring love to a family. But this does not mean that everything should revolve around them. You should also talk to your husband often and show him that you love him and appreciate him. You do not need to do big things.

Always consider the above in your marriage life because ignorance could make your marriage crumble.

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