Just because you are able to feel the passion that is characteristic of love does not really mean you are ready to love. Love is a word and a feeling that has left many devastated and been a revelation to many, all in equal proportions.
To love and be loved, in the right manner, you need to be mature enough and be ready to experience that amazing feeling and quintessentially be able to suppress you when it takes you to the extremes.
As such, it is true that you may not be ready to love but still rush into love. But how really do you get to know that it is not yet time? Well, here are the most obvious signs.
1. Can't connect with your partner
When in love, there is that connection to which you are subject. You get to connect on various levels. If it ever happens that you find it hard to connect with the person you claim to love, it just shows that they are either not the right ones or that you should wait a little longer- the latter is true. You just aren't ready yet.
2. Obsessed with sex
Sex is never the definition of love. A strong relationship has less sex and more trust. If all you think about is sex, you just need a little bit of maturity and you will realize how wrong you actually are. Too much sex will lead to unhealthy relationships that are always surviving on the edge.
3. Your choices are weird
To choose a partner, you need to evaluate a combination of very many things. From their characters or behaviors to how well you two compliment, there is nothing you are supposed to ignore. If your choices are based in looks or because they come from a certain region of the country, you are not yet conversant with what love is and you need time.
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