You have been seeing that cute girl or that gentleman you find irresistible and think it is time you put them under your 'possession.'
But as much as they seem good to you, it is always proving to be problematic to get them. You think you are there but then, they are just elusive.
Everything will seem perfect but there are indicators that they really do not want you to make that final step. You are always kept in the dark. Whenever you put your best foot forward in a desperate attempt to see light, it is 'too bright' and you have to get back.
On that note, then, how will you know you are chasing someone who does not want to be caught? Simply, here is how:
1. You are in charge of texting
If you do not text or call them, a whole day will pass without any piece of communication taking place. If they have any form of interest in you, they will obviously make an effort to send a text message or anything that will trigger communication.
Disaster is when all of the communication has to start with you.
2. All planning is on you
You are coming up with stuff and how things should be or how to maintain how they are. Whoever you are chasing does not care what you come up with and are either okay or not okay with the plans in almost equal proportions.
You really need to stop if at all things are this bad.
3. You are the only one who is straight
Honesty and trust are key to any relationship. If they are kind of fake and a lot of things don't seem to be adding up, you seriously need to consider abandoning any missions you seek to achieve.
They just are never meant to be with you.
5. When together, talking is up to you
This is perhaps the worst case scenario. Imagine talking on the entire date with your 'partner' only nodding and uttering a few short phrases?
It's hard, isn't it? It is like dating yourself. They do not show any interest whatsoever. Well, if this happens, does it even make sense to continue being around?
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