As a dad, you are supposed to be a good idol to your son. A son needs his dad to guide him in every step so that he can also be both a good man and dad in the future. However, there are ways that dads crash their sons, most notably with words that they utter towards their sons.
Here are some of the words that crash sons when told by their dads;
1. “I’m disappointed in you.”
Whenever a son is on the wrong, most dads will generalize the situation by telling their sons how they are disappointed in them. Relating this to your son will destroy your son. Instead, one should be specific by saying that they are frustrated with their behaviour, not with them in person.
2. “I’m working on something important. You’ll have to wait.”
Sometimes, fathers happen to keep themselves so busy, forgetting that their sons also need to be given some attention. When your son is seeking your care and you snob him by telling him how tight you are, that will destroy him.
3. “You can’t do it.”
When it comes to something that your son is trying to achieve, it is always good to support him. Demoralizing his spirit by telling him how he is not going to make is undoubtedly inhumane.