Men always feel superior to their spouses either by nature or nurture. However, female aggression towards men in households is rising considerably compared to the past.
Several analysts attribute this behaviour to the rise of feminism. A good number of women in families are trying to dominate their partners in any possible way. They do this by either physical or emotional manipulation.
Men controlled by their wives experience humiliation and emasculation due to physical and verbal assaults.
If your wife has such behaviours, consider the following:
1. Find a counsellor
If the two of you are unable to control family issues or your wife is overly manipulative, seek professional guidance from a counsellor. This helps to identify the source of family problems and how to manage them when they arise.
2. Avoid taking criticisms personally
A manipulative wife uses emotional scolds that hurts you. Neither should you allow those criticisms downgrade you nor should you internalize them. Implanting negative thoughts on yourself may halt your attitudes and capabilities.
3. Lay boundaries
Speak up about the problems that face as a couple. Make it clear that you won't tolerate some of her authoritarian behaviours but show her that you want the best for the relationship. At one point she may reconsider and change.
4. Uphold your principles
You should stick to what you believe in if your wife is trying to change anything about you just to suit her selfish needs. Stand firm on what is right provided it doesn't harm your wife.
5. Quit oppressive relationships
When you've tried your best to mend the relationship troubles without any success, consider withdrawing from it. This is because your wife may be naturally inclined to being manipulative.