Infidelity is one of the major reasons for breakups in relationships. After vesting your time and energy, it would really pain if you find out that your partner was cheating on you.
However, if he apologises and you decide to start over again, be on the watch. Here are three things you should know before getting back with a cheater.
1. The past will never stop haunting you
You might decide to get back to him and he promises to change. He then treats you well with affection and care. However the next time you’re going to argue, you will remember that he once went behind your back with another lady.
2. It is hard for him to get past his infidelity
Change does not come overnight; it requires time for him to change. Some might even consider therapy but that does not guarantee a change of behaviour. It would be hard to rebuild trust with him.
3. Your insecurities would always pop up
You will always be thinking if the other lady is prettier, loving or has the same personality as yours. You will always ponder on what made your partner cheat with her. Is it because you don’t show him love and care? Is it because you don’t laugh at his jokes? These questions always make you feel insecure.