Just because he says how much he loves you does not really mean he is the one. Love is just a feeling and anyone can fake it. You need to look for other attributes that define a partner you want. It is true that your script may also lead you to the wrong person.
As such, you need to look out for particular attributes in a guy to let him into your life, on a permanent basis. But what is this you have to look out for? What really defines a great man? Someone who can take care of the family you may possibly raise together? Well, here is what you should see before taking him home, quite literally.
1. He's direct
An upright man has to always be direct with all he says and does. Responsibility and all that comes with it is embedded in there. If there is any form of misunderstanding, you should watch and see how he handles it. It has to be head on. If he takes you on waves to and fro, you better reconsider your options.
2. Honesty
A great man is also defined by how homest he can be. Even if he has to jeopardize your trust in him, he will be honest and just do everything as should be done.
3. Mature
His ability to take care of you, if at all he ever will, will be defined by how mature he is. It is hard to know which is mature or immature but this attribute cannot be faked for a long period of time. If he is pretending to be mature or fakng it, you will definitely see it, in some way.
4. Self-confident
This is a subtle attribute but it is very much of great importance. He has to sustain you and provide for the family. Right? Well, in cases where he is always borrowing and depending on others, you have to recinsider your steps anf take it slow.
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