Dating someone only to realise that you are being used is the worst thing that can happen to you. 

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Some women pretend to love their men only to dump them in the long run. Some women drop signs to show that they are really not into you. 

If she shows these three signs, she’s using you for her selfish gains:

1. She is obsessed with your money

A woman who puts money in front of everything else is not worth dating. A woman of this nature is likely to frustrate you. 

It is even worse when you are struggling to make ends meet. There is no reason to date a woman who only wants to siphon your hard-earned cash on a daily basis.

2. It’s all about her

Both partners need space in a relationship to be happy in the affair. The right woman will not want everything to be about her. 

She will do everything within her means to ensure you are happy. She will not suffocate you with unnecessary demands when you are constrained.

3.  You feel incomplete

Love is a source of happiness. A loving woman should make you feel complete all the time. 

You deserve someone who will change your life for the better. A woman who keeps getting you annoyed is not the right type to date.