No matter how much you need to feel loved and appreciated, certain things aren't just meant to be forced.
Forcing things in a relationship makes it look unhealthy. If you have to be in a relationship, then everything needs to flow smoothly and you should never force these three things:
You don't have to beg your partner for his or her time. If they really want to spend their time with you, they will and if they don't want to then they won't be available for you. Forcing your partner to give you their time is not part of healthy relationship.
2. Respect
You can not force your partner to respect you. Respect comes with love and this means if your partner claims to love you then respecting you should be part of the equation. True relationships must entail mutual respect.They have to see the value in you and your importance in their lives.
Intimacy means being sensually close to each other. Affection means being fond of each other or rather liking each other. You can't force your partner to be intimate with you neither can you force them to have some affection for you. If they aren't interested, let them be.