It is heartbreaking to realise your wife is cheating with a relative such as a brother or a cousin. 

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Dealing with this situation can be tough especially if you deeply love her. 

The way you handle this situation can either make or break you at the end of the day. 

Here are three things to do if you discover your wife has an affair with a relative:

1. Seek professional help

 It can be a good idea to start by seeking help from an expert. 

The expert will guide you on the best way to handle the situation. 

Disclose everything possible to him or her for easy guidance. 

Make sure the person is professional. 

Counselling can save your marriage when things are almost falling apart.

2. Talk to her in person

 It can be wise to sit down and talk about the affair with your partner. 

Tell her the way you feel about it. Remind her the way she is hurting you by engaging in an affair with another man in your family. 

She is likely to understand and change before you end the marriage. 

3. Walk away if she proves she cannot stop it

 If there is no way forward, then simply walk away. 

There is no need to continue holding on when she has proven beyond doubt that she cannot change at all. 

Try everything within your means, but if she proves adamant, then simply walk away from the marriage before it is too late.

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