In men and women, sexual arousal culminates in orgasm, with female orgasm solely from sexual intercourse often regarded as a unique feature of human sexuality. However, orgasm from sexual intercourse occurs more reliably in men than in women likely reflecting the different types of physical stimulation men and women require for orgasm.
This is an art that cannot be learned or performed by the faint of heart. It requires a lot of courage and practice to achieve both its mastery and execution. Achieving orgasm as a female is hard enough without worrying that you’re bored, annoyed, or impatient. Furthermore, things like birth control or medication absolutely drain her sex drive. Therefore to attain this climax, you'll have to be patient and remember a raging orgasm is at the other end of your awesome endeavor.
Here are some of the things a guy should do to make your woman go wild in bed:
1. Passion and adventure
Passion, interest, and a sense of adventure play a huge part in giving any woman an intense orgasm. You have to be totally consumed in the lovemaking act, savoring every inch of her body as you slowly caress and stroke her pleasure points vigorously and gently in quick succession. To capture her innate sexual desires you'll have to be creative, innovative and adventurous.
2. Clitoral stimulation
Most women achieve orgasm mainly through clitoral stimulation. This the metaphorical root of all their sexual pleasures. However, you will have to know her body well enough to achieve progress in good time and with ease. Some women enjoy a very focused and targeted clitoral stimulation, while others just the regular dry humping and pelvic rub could make her go wild.
3. Sensual and stimulating foreplay
Women, unlike men, take a very long time to warm up to the occasion for a sexual encounter. Good, sustained and informed foreplay is one of the best way to get her receptive, moist and ready. This is an integral part of this process, very essential for giving her an intense orgasm. Foreplay is your chance to achieve clitoral stimulation.
4. Oral performance
Your oral game has to be on-point. A huge percentile of women have trouble getting off from penetration alone; this demands for the change of tact on the dude's part. You have to find another way to stimulate her clitoris to achieving climax. Women need a gargantuan amount of concentration to reach orgasm, you have to switch your tongue severally before you find out what she likes, when you eventually do you should stay the course and be consistent in your rhythm.
5. Build up to the sexual encounter
Various sex magazine reports show that cuddling, hugging, and showing other gestures of love to your partner have the ability to make the woman achieve orgasm during sex. Women are not the type of creatures that you can just stick your boner out to and expect that they’re going to want to sit on it. They need that physically erotic touch to get warmed up to you first.
6. Lubricants always come in handy
Using a lubricant is definitely a pre-requisite to make her attain intense orgasms. Women find that the overall use of a personal lubricant with a partner greatly increases sexual pleasure. Lubrication makes it easier to slide across her clit and eliminates genital dryness.
7. Tune her mind sexually
Of all body organs that a male partner can arouse sexually with erotic sensations, the brain should be the most important of all. Playing into her fantasies, and working her brain while pleasuring your girl could be the best route to achieving intense orgasms. Tell her how sexy she looks, whisper dirty thoughts into her ear and what you would love to do to her. This could prove magical.
8. Practice edging on her
As unpleasant as this may sound, try delaying her climax gradually. Bring her to the brink of orgasm and then back off, focusing on kissing and touching instead of clit play. This creates a huge build up that leads to some intense orgasms when you finally bring her over the edge.
9. Dual stimulation
Sex toys do come in handy whenever you want to achieve dual simulation on your partner. If you want to make her go wild, then you will have to use a vibrator on her clit while you’re penetrating her. Dual stimulation is one of the quickest ways to bring her to a jaw-dropping, moan-inducing, intense orgasm.