There are different types of persons we meet when looking for love. Dating a bad boy or girl is never easy. You will be compelled to tolerate some things which can be frustrating. Dating can sometimes be driven by pain. Here are four signs your relationship is being driven by pain, not love

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1. Your partner is never there for you

There comes a time when you need your partner more than ever. A partner should be present to give you a shoulder to lean on. If he/she is never there for you then your relationship is being driven by pain and not love.

2. You seem to be making all the effort

A relationship is a two-way traffic. Both partners must work together to make things right. When you seem to be making the effort alone then things are not working in your relationship. Your partner needs to be supportive for the relationship to work.

3. Your partner’s words and actions do not match

Does he or she not stick to his word? Words are meaningless if his or her actions are not reflecting them. You need to think twice if your partner does not seem to live by his or her words.

4. Your partner is too secretive

Secrets can ruin your love life. Partners should be open. Do not keep any secret from your man or woman. It is hard to live with a woman who is very secretive in nature.