"We can just be friends" is a common statement mostly used to turn off 'boychild' in his advances towards a girl. 

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It has also been said that the statement is the beginning of the end of your personal interactions with the girl you are hitting on. 

However, the phrase can also be viewed as a tactic 'slay queens' use to play hard to get. This is when they don't want to show that your efforts to win them is working. 

However, this should not stop you from advancing with your plans. 

We have analysed some tips that can make you win her affection and get you out of the friend zone:

1. Be patient 

There are different reasons why someone may prefer you to be just a friend and nothing more than that for a while. 

Choose to be patient and be awesome friends. 

Hang out together regularly and make fun and awesome memories. 

It's said only a fool cannot change his mind; she might change her mind to get you out of the friend zone.

2. Be friends with her friends

 Create a good friendship with her inner circle. 

This will help you to know her better, and even have a  clue on why you have been friend zoned. 

Most of the time her friends are aware that you are chasing after her, and being close to them might earn you their endorsement. 

3. Surprise her with gifts 

The best feeling in any kind of relationship is opening a gift box. 

Surprise her with gifts once in a while, take her out for dinner. 

You have to prove that you are the romantic guy she is missing in her life.

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