Life is crafted in a way that not everything we want we will get. Therefore rejections are bound to come our way. So when it comes especially from someone you love what do you do?

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1. Accept with an open heart

Be honest with yourself that you will not get everything that you want. So when a person no matter how they give you the message, whether arrogantly or politely, accept it and console yourself that it was not your time and that there are better things and better people that are soon coming your way and you will still be happy.

2. Don't let that rejection define you

A person who rejected you might have whispered to another person that "You are broke and cannot offer anything". Yes, you might be broke right now, but that does not mean that you will die poor. It is just a stage of life to start low and become better. Work hard to prove the people that rejected you because of poverty that it is not the same all the way.

3. Try elsewhere

The world is so full of beautiful and handsome people. The world is filled with happiness and the people are just so kind-hearted. If the person you thought you love said no, yes it will break your heart but someone somewhere will be ready to embrace you with an open heart. That is the place you should go and try.

4. Don't create enmity out of it

It is part of life, do not take any person who rejects you as your enemy. In fact, it is good that the person was honest with you in the early stages that to tell you later on that she/he was only playing with your feelings, it will hurt more. Just let it be and get on with other things.