Rebound relationships like the Titanic sometimes hit icebergs. Some are lucky to survive and some are not. The lucky ones get quickly into another relationship, in what is known as a rebound relationship. It is for those who are afraid to be alone.
The repercussions of moving one quickly can be more detrimental than healing, especially when it comes to affairs of the heart.
Rebound relationships are more damaging than healing.
It is better to get over the heartache alone than to be with someone who does not appreciate you.
The very things you are looking for in a relationship are not what the other person is looking for. In the end, you are more broken than before.
Rebound relationships are temporary
The issue of permanence in a rebound relationship is something that does not register in anyone’s mind. You are hurting and seeking healing as quickly as possible. The other partner may not see the need for such things – he or she could be about the fun.
It is about the ex
Rebound relationships are geared towards hurting the ex. You are yearning to tell them that you can do without them. At times, for the ladies, you find yourself talking more about the ex than where your relationship is actually going.
It is all about fun
If both partners know that it is nothing serious, the relationship can be fun. There are no strings attached. The company of the partner is all that is asked.
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